“I do not believe that just because you’re opposed to abortion, that that makes you pro-life. In fact, I think in many cases, your morality is deeply lacking if all you want is a child born but not a child fed, not a child educated, not a child housed. And why would I think that you don’t? Because you don’t want any tax money to go there. That’s not pro-life. That’s pro-birth. We need a much broader conversation on what the morality of pro-life is.”—
I would like to make this absolutely clear because I seem to be in a very small minority in this regard. What I have seen is that many women who hold keys to their mate’s chastity employ tactics to feminise him — “forcing” him into female clothing and behaviours, belittling the size of his penis, and even adopting the practice of cuckolding. If that is your kink… if that is what you and your man agree to… fine. I have absolutely nothing to say on your very personal choice, as long as you both consent to and embrace it. But, please do not assume that it is the same for me and my man; and definitely do not put forth that one thing must necessarily follow from another in this large world of chastity kink.
I am not attracted to sissy/boi/fembots/etc. They are not interesting to me romantically or erotically. That’s just the way it is. I do have friends and acquaintances who are sissies. I think they are awesome and fascinating. I encourage their explorations. But I do not want to fuck them.
Who DO I want to fuck? A man. A man who can overpower me physically. A man who is focused on me. A true gentleman. Someone who is all masculine — what is more masculine than a raging erection and the shooting of semen — the absolute essence of male sexuality? And what could be more intoxicating than being in control of such a man’s sexuality?
He places the key in my hand! THAT is the turn on.
“Male fantasies, male fantasies, is everything run by male fantasies? Up on a pedestal or down on your knees, it’s all a male fantasy: that you’re strong enough to take what they dish out, or else too weak to do anything about it. Even pretending you aren’t catering to male fantasies is a male fantasy: pretending you’re unseen, pretending you have a life of your own, that you can wash your feet and comb your hair unconscious of the ever-present watcher peering through the keyhole, peering through the keyhole in your own head, if nowhere else. You are a woman with a man inside watching a woman. You are your own voyeur.”—
If you ever hear me say that I feel very strongly that many women in my generation have internalized the male gaze, this is what I mean. The sad thing is that many women of my generation have chosen to EMBRACE the male gaze and call it “liberation.” So many of us have to fight to find out what WE actually enjoy, what WE want, and a lot of times we don’t even know that we need to do that - because by default we are brought up to cater to men. (via stitch)
There is a great deal of hotness even in the bad tropes. Written well, and written in a way that highlights the humanity of the characters and the romance of the actions can go a long way towards making just about any cliche more palatable.
True point, Peroxide. I think, at the core of all “bad” tropes, is a lack of humanity. Maybe my next challenge should be to take all the overdone kink tropes and make them into adorable, snuzzlesome fictions? :)
It took four (ish) girls before Sven found Mimi. Four or more tries at convincing them that he wasn’t a creep for what he wanted. Four girls who made him feel disgusting. And only one girl to make him cry, as she tells him she loves him all the more for it.
“The (500) Days of Summer attitude of “He wants you so bad” seems attractive to some women and men, especially younger ones, but I would encourage anyone who has a crush on my character to watch it again and examine how selfish he is. He develops a mildly delusional obsession over a girl onto whom he projects all these fantasies. He thinks she’ll give his life meaning because he doesn’t care about much else going on in his life. A lot of boys and girls think their lives will have meaning if they find a partner who wants nothing else in life but them. That’s not healthy. That’s falling in love with the idea of a person, not the actual person.”—